Every Day You Wait, the Wound Gets Deeper. Start Healing Your Relationship Today.
You’re Confused. You’re Guilty. You’re Afraid of Losing Everything.
You cheated—and now the life you knew is shattered.
Your partner’s trust is gone, the air is thick with questions you can’t seem to answer, and the fear of losing them for good is overwhelming.
Stop Performing. Start Transforming.
Your Partner Sees Through Empty Gestures. Now It’s Time for Real Repair.
Here’s the truth:
The first days and weeks after an affair are revealed will make or break the possibility of repair.
One wrong move—another lie, ongoing contact with the affair partner, getting defensive—and trust can be destroyed forever.
But… with the right structure, emotional clarity, and a concrete plan, you can repair the damage, rebuild trust, and become a better partner (and person) than you were before.
This workbook is your roadmap to redemption.
Why Did I Cheat? Navigating the 3 Phases to Repair the Damage is for people ready to stop the spiral of shame, confusion, and self-sabotage—and start leading their partner through real healing.
Written by T.L. Kern, MA, LPCC, this evidence-based workbook walks you step-by-step through understanding your motivations, taking full responsibility, and proving your commitment through action—not empty promises.
What You’ll Learn Inside Your Digital Private Workbook:
✅ Face the truth behind why you cheated
Move past excuses to uncover the real reasons—so you can stop repeating destructive patterns.
✅ Take control of the repair process
Don’t wait for your partner to “get over it.” Learn to lead the healing journey with integrity and consistency.
✅ Rebuild trust through action
Words won’t heal—consistent, transparent behavior will.
✅ Respond with empathy instead of defensiveness
When the anger and questions come (and they will), you’ll know how to stay present and listen.
✅ Create a stronger relationship than before
Because going “back to normal” isn’t enough—learn to build something better.
B.R.
September 20, 2024
"Terri is fantastic, amazing, incredible, awesome!!!! I miss her!!! She’s so good at what she does that I got better and don’t need therapy (for now—knock on wood!). I truly feel she was born to do this work. She is so genuinely caring and encouraging! I can’t say enough good things about her. She was above and beyond for me. I would highly recommend her to anyone who is struggling and needs a kind ear, a professional mind, and a big heart! ❤ A++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++"
Most cheaters who want to repair do it wrong—they try to wing it.
They apologize, promise it won’t happen again… and hope their partner moves on.
It doesn’t work.
In this workbook, you’ll see exactly how to structure your repair process so you both can heal—without feeling beaten down or hopeless.
