The Lies Must Stop: A Call for Accountability
- Terri Kern, Clinical Counselor

- Sep 9
- 3 min read
Updated: Nov 30
As a licensed clinical counselor, I’m guided by the American Counseling Association’s Code of Ethics. This means two things:
I have a duty to help people face reality as it is, not as we wish it to be.
I must do no harm in the process.
Just as I’m a mandated reporter when someone is at risk of hurting themselves or others, I also have a professional obligation to speak up when dishonesty or dangerous behavior threatens people’s well-being.
That’s why, when I address public figures like Donald Trump, I’m not being political for its own sake. In fact, I detest politics. I’m honoring my responsibility as a mental health professional to name harmful patterns and point people toward truth.
I'm a lifelong Ohio Republican. I am NOT a Democrat, although I respect all of my Democrat and left-leaning family and friends. This article is NOT political.

I have years of experience and formal training in interview and interrogation techniques through Wicklander-Zulawski & Associates, the world leader in investigative training. I was trained by the founders, Doug Wicklander and Dave Zulawski. I know when people lie.
The Reality of Our Situation
Here is the truth:

But Terri, It's Unethical For You To Talk About Politics
I hear this nonsense all the time.
It's unethical for me to push my opinion and outrage onto my clients. However, it is my responsibility to keep human beings in reality. This way, each of us can make the best decisions for ourselves and our lives.
Every single client I work with is suffering in some way from the aggressive and illegal actions of our current Administration. My friends and neighbors are all suffering in ways they weren't before.
Layoffs, benefits loss, disconnection from parents in the cult-like MAGA world, school funds diverted, living expenses unmanageable, lack of affordable housing, poor job outlook, and more.

We Must Change This
The American voter still has all the power.
You have the power, and so do I!
Learn about your constitutional rights. I wrote an ADHD version!.
You have the right to write to your elected officials and demand they end this assault on Americans. If your leaders are Republican, hold them accountable for supporting all the lies.
As I'm writing this, I see all the Trump Republican allies lying their asses off:
"Oh, I don't think that's his signature" - LI
"I've seen Donald Trump's signature 'a million' times, and that's not it" - LI
"Trump's not in the Epstein files!" - LI
If your leaders are Democrats or Independents, ask them what they are doing to stop this horrific period in American history.
DEMAND ACCOUNTABILITY.
How To Contact Your Elected Officials
OUR KIDS ARE WATCHING

The Importance of Truth in Leadership
In today's world, the truth is more important than ever. Our leaders set the tone for our society. When they lie, it erodes trust. This affects not just adults but also the younger generations watching closely. They learn from our actions and words.
It's crucial to model honesty and integrity. We must demand these qualities from those in power.
The Ripple Effect of Lies
Lies have consequences. They create a ripple effect that impacts families, communities, and the nation. When leaders deceive, it can lead to widespread confusion and fear. This is especially harmful to our youth, who are trying to navigate an already complicated world.
We must challenge these lies and hold our leaders accountable.
Taking Action Together
Change begins with us. We must unite and demand better from our leaders. This is not just about politics; it's about our collective future.
Engage with your community. Attend town hall meetings. Write letters to your representatives. Use your voice to advocate for truth and accountability.
Conclusion
The lies must stop. Together, we can create a culture of honesty and integrity. Our children deserve a better world, one where truth prevails.
For more insights and advice, visit my Advice blog. Let's work together to make a difference.





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