Advice & Support When Your Partner Refuses Counseling
Licensed, professional marriage counselor for couples in Ohio - virtually
When Your Spouse Won’t Go to Counseling
It can feel frustrating and lonely when you know your marriage needs help, but your partner won’t come to counseling. You may wonder: “Can I really improve things on my own?” The answer is yes. Even if your spouse isn’t ready, you can take steps to strengthen your relationship, shift patterns, and create a healthier dynamic.
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What You Can Do on Your Own
Marriage is a partnership, but it only takes one person to begin change. Individual counseling for relationship concerns helps you:
Learn communication skills that make conversations calmer and more productive
Change how you respond to conflict, reducing arguments and tension
Set boundaries that protect your emotional well-being
Explore your own needs, values, and expectations in marriage
Model healthier patterns that often inspire your partner to engage differently
Why Marriage Advice Isn’t Just for Couples Together
Many people think counseling only works if both partners attend. But the truth is, one partner can have a powerful influence on the direction of the marriage.
By working on your mindset, behaviors, and skills, you change the “dance steps” of your relationship—often leading your partner to respond in healthier ways.
Online Counseling for Individuals in Relationships
With online counseling, you don’t have to wait for your spouse to agree. Sessions are private, convenient, and focused on helping you make progress now. You’ll learn tools that improve your marriage even if your partner is resistant.
Confidential: Your partner doesn’t have to attend for you to grow
Practical Tools: Communication strategies you can apply right away
Flexible Sessions: 30, 45, or 60 minutes to fit your schedule
Accessible: Use insurance through Headway or private pay options
S.W.
June 13, 2025
"Terri doesn't blame or judge. Just actionable plans and steady progress."
P.G.
July 22, 2025
"I acknowledge that the inner critic's voice is now more recognizable and less impactful than it was last year."
J.S.
January 15, 2025
"She has been absolutely fantastic. Listens to my needs and provided helpful feedback. Definitely would come back to her."
A.K.
June 3, 2024
"When I first started working with Terri, I was in crisis. Her ability to fully understand me and hold space for me was unprecedented in my therapy journey. She was extraordinary and I'll return to her."
M.T.
September 5, 2024
"Terri is absolutely amazing and has created the best experience I have ever had with therapy or really any mental health help. She is very honest, insightful, and I can’t help but smile and feel safe with her during her appointments."
B.R.
September 20, 2024
"Terri is fantastic, amazing, incredible, awesome!!!! I miss her!!! She’s so good at what she does that I got better and don’t need therapy (for now—knock on wood!). I truly feel she was born to do this work. She is so genuinely caring and encouraging! I can’t say enough good things about her. She was above and beyond for me. I would highly recommend her to anyone who is struggling and needs a kind ear, a professional mind, and a big heart! ❤ A++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++"
L.D.
January 6, 2025
"Understands me and what I am feeling."
C.H.
March 7, 2025
"She’s the best!"
T.N.
February 21, 2025
"I love her"
E.W.
January 21, 2025
"Love her"
Get Started Today
You don’t have to wait for your partner to agree to counseling before things can improve. With the right support, you can strengthen your marriage from where you are now.
📅 Schedule your first session today and start building the marriage you want—even if your spouse isn’t ready to join yet.
My role in individual couples therapy is to help you focus on what you can control—your growth, your choices, and the way you show up in your relationship.
This isn’t about trying to “fix” your partner or waiting for them to change. Instead, it’s a self-discovery process where you explore your needs, values, and patterns so you can bring the best version of yourself into your marriage.
Even if your partner resists counseling or responds poorly, you’ll leave with practical tools to communicate better, set healthy boundaries, and create meaningful change from your side of the relationship.
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